Gauri Chibber Biography
Admin 0 Comment Shahrukh has always carried pain from the loss of his father and sister's illness. But despite the misfortunes, he was opened to the world and in love with life. At 19, he met Gauri. She was only 14 years old then. I will not dwell on their love stories - we have already told you about her in one of the past articles. I'll leave the link at the end. Today I want to talk about how, after 7 years of acquaintance, Shahrukh still managed to marry Gauri, despite the resistance of her family.
When they met, their “dates” were a children's game, which actually did not mean anything. Gauri continued to go to school, freely walk around the city and meet with Shahkrukh. They spent a lot of time in his apartment with his mother, treating to snacks. Gauri lived in a mixed family, her father and uncle lived in the same house, so the girl grew surrounded by cousins, sisters and parents.
The family was very wealthy, they owned factories and exhibition halls that produced textiles and clothes that were exported. Their daughter could wear short skirts and jeans, walk and get an education in the field of fashion. Gauri did not tell her parents with whom she was spending time unlike Shah, because, being a man, he was in a different position. Their relationship grew with them.
Shahrukh was afraid to lose Gauri, especially since his mother, sick with diabetes, was getting worse and worse as his sister. He was very jealous of his beloved, often quarreled with her, but mutual feelings kept them together. Shahrukh began working as an actor before he finished graduate school. His mother owned a store of sweets and worked as a judge thanks to the old political relations of the world.
Shahrukh received a role in the local series “Rubber” Fauji, and then the proposals came from two more series shot in Bombay. Khan left for filming and lived in a separate room in the house of one of his producers, working 20 hours a day. And every night he fled to the telephone booth and called his dying mother in Delhi. And then to his girlfriend. They were separated for several months and both knew that this could not continue more.
The far distance was too painful. At that time, they had several ways to get out of this situation: Shahrukh could abandon their dreams and return home, continuing to secretly meet with Gauri. Gauri could escape from home and marry him in Bombay. Or they could leave. But in the end, they chose a fourth, practically impossible option: to inform the Gauri family news that she has been in a relationship with a guy for 7 years that they have never heard of.
And then ask for their blessings for the wedding and leave for several hundred kilometers. Shahrukh tells the heroic story about how he defeated the Gauri family almost alone. But if you read between the lines, then Gauri arranged everything. At first, she made Shah meet her “steep aunt” and surprise her at a dinner in a restaurant. The aunt was really very cool and immediately supported the young.
And then Gauri invited him to a big home welcome, where they managed to take her father aside and leave her alone with Shahkrukh. The future king of Bollywood explained who he was and that he wants to marry his daughter. The father of the family was shocked and angry with this completely unfamiliar person, who announced that for 7 years he has been dating his daughter and was going to marry her.
Not only did Khan were a Muslim, but also too poor in their standards. Father ordered Shah to immediately leave their house. At this time, Gauri’s mother entered and was very excited when she saw the young actor from the series “Rubber”. She liked his hero and she sincerely did not understand why he was so suddenly leaving. It was just the beginning of the drama.
As Shahrukh says further, his brother Gauri came to his house, showed a gun and warned him to stay away from his sister. Here it would be possible to put a cross on the relationship of two lovers, but they did not give up. We do not know the side of Gauri and what she told her family or what threatened them. But I assume that her influence on the parents who loved her was much more than everything that Shahrukh could do.
It was Gauri who told Shakhrukh what to do and how to place her parents to her. Their marriage, with the blessing of the family, largely happened thanks to Gauri. Again, these were two very liberal families from Delhi. Inter -religious marriage was unusual, but not unheard of in their social group. Especially taking into account the fact that the Gauri family provided them with full support, having arranged an Hindu ceremony, although from a legal point of view, this was pointless after a legally registered marriage in court.
For her parents, the wedding was the reason for the celebration, not shame. Having married, Shahrukh and Gauri settled in Bombay and lived in the same room. All this time, Shahrukh worked without turning his hands, trying to start his career.He tried to take his wife with him as often as possible to visiting shootings or just on the set, included her in an advertising campaign, and invited her to industry events.
This was the only way to introduce her to his life. Because at the age of 21, Gauri turned from a family favorite and friends into a girl running after her husband, because he was the only person she knew throughout the city. Nevertheless, she smiles at all photos.
And it’s happy to just be with him. Mila - Bollywoodtime.